After 42 weeks of pregnancy, two days of undergoing inducement
and physical stress on the baby, my daughter was delivered via an emergency
C-section. Oh, it was music to my ears when my gynecologist arrived in
my hospital room at 4:30 a.m. and told me they were going to do an emergency
C-section. I must have been in shock or delirious! However, after going
through a traumatic two days, I had had enough and I wanted to meet this
precious baby who lived inside of me for 9+ months. The time came and I
was wheeled to the operating room, and what a blessed event it was to see
my sweet new baby girl!
I wasn’t prepared for the aftermath of a C-Section but
I am so grateful that I had a great family who were there for me and helped
me every step of the way.
1) Plan ahead. No one can predict whether or not you'll
need an emergency c-section. So prepare yourself with information.
2) Try not to be upset if you are told you have to undergo
a C-section to deliver your baby. I know that many new parents are less
than thrilled at the prospect and have anticipated a natural delivery.
Plenty of women feel put down and feel less like a woman because they did
not deliver their baby through the hard work of labour. I know it is emotionally
hard. Truly, the main concern is you and your baby’s health and that is
more important than how you delivered your baby.
3) Expect a brief hospital stay. My daughter and I were
in the hospital for four days after the birth. If you require assistance
at any time in caring for you or your baby, are uncomfortable due to the
pain, or have any questions, do not be afraid to ask for help. There were
times when I was too proud to press the buzzer to ask for assistance. But,
believe me, their assistance is very much required, especially with the
care of your newborn baby.
4) When the time comes and the nurses and/or doctors tell
you to walk around, do try. It may be difficult but do try to do a little
walking if and when possible. It helps to alleviate the stomach gases that
are very much a part of the discomfort you feel after a C-section.
5) The day arrives when you and your newborn can finally
go home. Enlist support! Ensure that you have family, friends or loved
ones to assist you and, once again, do not be afraid to ask for help. Do
not try to be supermom! I was fortunate to have a supportive family at
home and could not imagine going through the recovery without them. It
will take you 6 weeks to fully recuperate from a C-section, afterall, it
is major surgery.
6) Do not pick up heavy items. Remember, you have just
had surgery and your incision is in the healing process.
7) Ensure that you eat healthy and drink lots of water.
This is important to ensure that your digestive systems returns to normal.
Plenty of rest is vital for recuperation. Enjoy this period of relaxation
because you have many years of motherhood to go!
9) Enjoy this special time with your new baby!
I survived my first C-section and 18 months after the
birth of my daughter, I gave birth to a healthy baby boy via a scheduled
C-section. The second C-section was easier. I am grateful to have two healthy
children who are the joy of my life, irregardless of how I delivered them.
About The Author
Lee-Anne Robert, proud mother of two healthy young children
and owner of Cuddles ‘n Gifts, http://www.cuddlesngifts.net