Potty training your child could be a big challenge, especially
if it is your firstborn. You may be a little nervous wondering if you are
doing everything correctly to ensure the process goes as smoothly as possible.
Potty training is a natural part of a child's development and can be made
easier just by understanding factors that indicate your child is ready
to begin learning the task.
One important thing to stay away from is thinking that
potty training has to take place at a specific age. Children develop different
skills at different ages and every child is unique. Therefore you can not
expect your child to lean how to potty train at the same age your best
friend's child learned. Instead be patient and understanding.
Trying to potty train a child before they are ready could
results in many setbacks. If the child does not understand what is happening
and why you are taking them into the bathroom they may become discouraged
and even afraid of the bathroom. This could add to the length of time it
takes your child to learn how to use the potty. Therefore, you need to
wait until your child is old enough to understand just what using the potty
This would include things like knowing when your child
is beginning to have better control over their bladder because they or
staying dry more often. Also, when they show signs that they do not like
having their pants wet or soiled then you can feel sure they are beginning
to understand and its time to start potty training. They should also be
coordinated enough to be able to pull their pants up and down. After all,
if they cannot perform this task it would be difficult to use the potty
and may begin to discourage them. You can help in this area by providing
clothing that is easier for the child to remove.
Children are very curious and love to watch what you do,
by allowing them to observe you in the bathroom they will begin to understand
and want to imitate this action. Have a potty chair ready for your child
and explain to them what it is and how to use it. Keeping a light on in
the bathroom can also help considering most light switches are too high
for a child to reach. If they are spending too much time trying to get
the light on then it may be too late to use the potty. One of the most
important steps in potty training your child would be to never yell at
them for accidents and always let them know you are proud of them.
About the Author
Christian Tylor is a freelance publisher based in Atlanta,
Georgia. He publishes articles and reports in various ezines and provides
family resources on http://www.freenetpublishing.com.